Ask Garnet - How to Put on a Condom

Hi ! I never had a girlfriend and have sex. And it is really hard for me. Could you, plz, advice me how I can put the condom in that it will last good in the intercourse? Also, I would like to know can the vagina be so tight or so dry the condom can fell out from the penis ? I am 24 yrs old and never had sex with anyone. It is hard. I masturbate every day and I would like to find a good looking lady like you. When I had an opportunity for sex, should I do it ? Can you give a advice for a good artificial vagina for masturbation ?

Whoa whoa whoa. That is a lot of questions right there. It will take me a few blog posts to answer all of these so stay tuned for all of the answers over the next few days.

First, let’s talk about condoms. Putting a condom on correctly is really important so here’s how you do it:

• 1. Check the expiration date printed on the condom to make sure it is still good. If it is not, throw it out and get a new one. If it’s good, move on to step 2.
• 2. Carefully tear the condom wrapper open. Do NOT use scissors or anything sharp as you could make a hole in the condom.
• 3. Unroll the condom a little bit to figure out which way it goes.
• 4. Squeeze a drop or two of a water or silicone based lube into the condom. This will make it more pleasurable for the wearer.
• 5. Squeeze the first 1/4-1/2 inch of the condom to make sure there is room for semen to go when you ejaculate.
• 6. If you have foreskin, pull it down gently so that it is under the head of your penis and then roll the condom down the shaft of the penis.
• 7. Rub some water or silicone lube on the outside of the condom.
• 8. Stick in hole and thrust in and out.
• 9. After you ejaculate pull out immediately before your dick gets soft. Make sure you hold onto the base of the condom as you pull out.
• 10. Then just throw away. If you want to have sex again use a new condom.

Here’s a demo video I made because sometimes it’s just easier to show than tell.

Many condoms come prelubed, but adding a little extra lube can never hurt and in fact will often make sex more pleasurable for both partners. It will also keep the sex safer since the condom will be less likely to dry out and break. Latex can actually dry a woman’s natural lubrication out.

Condoms can fall off. It isn’t usually because the vagina is too tight though. It may happen if it dries out, but it can also happen just from the friction of thrusting or if the condom is too big. Guys, don’t pretend your cock is bigger than it is because condoms that are too big are more likely to break and/or slip off. Get a condom that fits. If you are worried about slippage I suggest using a cheap cock ring around the base of the condom to keep it on.

Stay tuned for the rest of the answers!